Early bird or night owl?
Kahuna – Absolutely an Early Bird. I get up between 4:00am and 5:30am
Babushka - Absolutely an early bird! I love waking to Kahuna! Grant it, I usually end up falling to sleep again.
Where was the first place you ever had sex?
Kahuna – I do not remember where it was, just that it was not very enjoyable
Babushka - I would rather not remember.
On a scale of 1-10, how happy are you? (1 is lowest, 10 is highest)
Kahuna – Probably a 9 (Divorce that will never end excluded)
Babushka - 9! There is little in my life, when I really think about it, that I am not happy with.
Are you more submissive or dominant?
Kahuna – I think I am naturally submissive, due to low self-esteem for years. I am working on that………as a matter of fact I took the risk of being dominant with Babushka last night (and I believe we both enjoyed it tremendously)
Babushka - I am 50/50. I love being dominated. I love taking control!
Do you believe in love at first sight?
Kahuna – Yes, once I saw Babushka for the first time
Babushka - Yes.
Bonus (as in optional): Describe your bed time habits. What side do you sleep on? What do you usual wear? Any night time rituals?
Kahuna – When alone, I sleep on the edge of the bed in my underwear. When with Babushka, I sleep Nekkid and always touching a part of her body. My nighttime ritual with babushka is teasing her/preventing her from touching my cock. Happy TMI everyone!!!
Babushka - My bedtime retual is to lock down the house (old fears die hard). If Kahuna is here, we put BuddyLuv to bed. Wait till he is sleeping, take our eyes out (contacts) go to bed tired, then wake up as soon as we hit the sheets. I cuddle next to Kahuna, spend ot time together, then fall to sleep touching him somewhere. If I wake up not touching him, (which is unusual because I am usually pushed up against him, while he is falling off the edge of the bed)I find ways to entangle myself into him.
I adore and miss you tonight, Kahuna!
Tuesday, April 29, 2008
TMI #133
Early bird or night owl?
Kahuna – Absolutely an Early Bird. I get up between 4:00am and 5:30am
Where was the first place you ever had sex?
Kahuna – I do not remember where it was, just that it was not very enjoyable
Kahuna – Probably a 9 (Divorce that will never end excluded)
Are you more submissive or dominant?
Kahuna – I think I am naturally submissive, due to low self-esteem for years. I am working on that………as a matter of fact I took the risk of being dominant with Babushka last night (and I believe we both enjoyed it tremendously)
Kahuna – Yes, once I saw Babushka for the first time
Bonus (as in optional): Describe your bed time habits. What side do you sleep on? What do you usual wear? Any night time rituals?
Kahuna – When alone, I sleep on the edge of the bed in my underwear. When with Babushka, I sleep Nekkid and always touching a part of her body. My nighttime ritual with babushka is teasing her/preventing her from touching my cock.
Happy TMI everyone!!!
Kahuna – Absolutely an Early Bird. I get up between 4:00am and 5:30am
Where was the first place you ever had sex?
Kahuna – I do not remember where it was, just that it was not very enjoyable
Kahuna – Probably a 9 (Divorce that will never end excluded)
Are you more submissive or dominant?
Kahuna – I think I am naturally submissive, due to low self-esteem for years. I am working on that………as a matter of fact I took the risk of being dominant with Babushka last night (and I believe we both enjoyed it tremendously)
Kahuna – Yes, once I saw Babushka for the first time
Bonus (as in optional): Describe your bed time habits. What side do you sleep on? What do you usual wear? Any night time rituals?
Kahuna – When alone, I sleep on the edge of the bed in my underwear. When with Babushka, I sleep Nekkid and always touching a part of her body. My nighttime ritual with babushka is teasing her/preventing her from touching my cock.
Happy TMI everyone!!!
Saturday, April 26, 2008
Was I dreaming?!?
I think I just woke up from the most amazing dream!
I had a dream that I picked BuddyLuv up from his Great Gram's house after school, we met Kahuna, Dude and Pumpkin at everyone's favorite pizza joint, then spent the rest of the evening enjoying a live sporting event! I dreamed that everyone not only got along. . . But, they smiled, laughed and were genuinely interested in each other.
I just pinched myself. . . I am not dreaming. . . That is really how it happened! It really was the most enjoyable evening!
Right from the start, it was wonderful! It was a stand in line kind of place. Pumpkin really wanted a salad. But, because they have a different line for that which was moving SO slowly, she was going to settle for pizza. I explained to an employee, who said it would be his good deed for the day to get her a salad. That delighted Pumpkin.
Dude volunteered school information while we were talking at the table!
Pumpkin was excited when I asked to try one of her croutons (I had heard from Kahuna before how much his family loves their croutons). She smiled form ear to ear when I commented just how delicious they were!
BuddyLuv talked and talked and talked, this is typical. But, it was compounded because he was excited to meet them, you could tell.
Dude and I connected over the breadsticks.
Off to the game we went.
We parked near each other, so we walked the skyways together. Pumpkin held the door for all of us, what a sweetheart!
Dude was busy texting, but Kahuna, BuddyLuv, Pumpkin and I had comfortable conversation on the walk.
Pumpkin was standing in the front corner of the suite. every other seat had a shared stand of sorts for resting drinks. I sat two seats in purposely, so that I would have one seat open next to me if she wanted to sit there. I went back to use the bathroom. When I came back, she was in the seat next to me!
BuddyLuv sat on my other side. Kahuna sat next to Pumpkin. Dude sat back by the TV so he could watch the baseball game.
I was once a hockey cheerleader. LaCross is a lot like hockey.They have the same rules, mostly. But, I asked Pumpkin many questions about the game because she was always more than happy to teach me. At one point, she was explaining something while Kahuna was trying to explain, too. when she was looking at the field, I mouthed I know to Kahuna, he hit himself in the head as if to say, "duh!".
At one point, I went to get up and get more water. Pumpkin offered to refill it for me.
BuddyLuv cuddled with me a few moments off and on.
When I went to the restroom, I came out to find Kahuna smiling from ear to ear as he reported to me that BuddyLuv and Pumpkin were talking back and forth to each other through their free posters.
Our team lost. But, we won! On the way back to the cars, I took the elevators instead of the stairs. Pumpkin joined me as the boys raced to beat us! She shared with me that she plays in band, and does percussion instruments.
My Kahuna. . . You have brought me more joy in the last year and a half than I can ever remember.
I had a dream that I picked BuddyLuv up from his Great Gram's house after school, we met Kahuna, Dude and Pumpkin at everyone's favorite pizza joint, then spent the rest of the evening enjoying a live sporting event! I dreamed that everyone not only got along. . . But, they smiled, laughed and were genuinely interested in each other.
I just pinched myself. . . I am not dreaming. . . That is really how it happened! It really was the most enjoyable evening!
Right from the start, it was wonderful! It was a stand in line kind of place. Pumpkin really wanted a salad. But, because they have a different line for that which was moving SO slowly, she was going to settle for pizza. I explained to an employee, who said it would be his good deed for the day to get her a salad. That delighted Pumpkin.
Dude volunteered school information while we were talking at the table!
Pumpkin was excited when I asked to try one of her croutons (I had heard from Kahuna before how much his family loves their croutons). She smiled form ear to ear when I commented just how delicious they were!
BuddyLuv talked and talked and talked, this is typical. But, it was compounded because he was excited to meet them, you could tell.
Dude and I connected over the breadsticks.
Off to the game we went.
We parked near each other, so we walked the skyways together. Pumpkin held the door for all of us, what a sweetheart!
Dude was busy texting, but Kahuna, BuddyLuv, Pumpkin and I had comfortable conversation on the walk.
Pumpkin was standing in the front corner of the suite. every other seat had a shared stand of sorts for resting drinks. I sat two seats in purposely, so that I would have one seat open next to me if she wanted to sit there. I went back to use the bathroom. When I came back, she was in the seat next to me!
BuddyLuv sat on my other side. Kahuna sat next to Pumpkin. Dude sat back by the TV so he could watch the baseball game.
I was once a hockey cheerleader. LaCross is a lot like hockey.They have the same rules, mostly. But, I asked Pumpkin many questions about the game because she was always more than happy to teach me. At one point, she was explaining something while Kahuna was trying to explain, too. when she was looking at the field, I mouthed I know to Kahuna, he hit himself in the head as if to say, "duh!".
At one point, I went to get up and get more water. Pumpkin offered to refill it for me.
BuddyLuv cuddled with me a few moments off and on.
When I went to the restroom, I came out to find Kahuna smiling from ear to ear as he reported to me that BuddyLuv and Pumpkin were talking back and forth to each other through their free posters.
Our team lost. But, we won! On the way back to the cars, I took the elevators instead of the stairs. Pumpkin joined me as the boys raced to beat us! She shared with me that she plays in band, and does percussion instruments.
My Kahuna. . . You have brought me more joy in the last year and a half than I can ever remember.
Friday, April 25, 2008
Whose fault is this week anyway?!?!
Another week in the books - one that I do not mind having in the rear view mirror.
Divorce - A day sequestered with PB and two attorneys is never a good thing. I could rant for an hour but basically she refuses to consider discussing a settlement and wants everything. Trial is August 7th - at least there is a light at the end of the tunnel (or is that the train of poverty approaching?).
Work - For me, overwhelming as is typical. But my poor Babushka has to end her work week on a down note. An unhappy employee that she supports yelling and screaming to anyone who will listen that she will not work with Babushka........and why.......because this chowder printed a 4,000 page document multiple times, waited until the job was mid-print and then demanded that tech. support stop the print jobs (which they could not at that point). Therefore tech. support is incompetent.
Another lovely example of personal accountability going the way of the VHS. I feel so bad for my Babushka, as she takes these things personally - she is someone who cares to a fault about the service she provides. Unfortunately for her, even she cannot fix Stupid (to quote Ron White).
Teeth - What is this you say? Basically I had to have a molar painfully extracted last night, a mere 4 weeks after having a root canal on said tooth. Why not pile on me when I am down, right?
One of the wonderful aspects of recovery and life with Babushka is the fact that I choose whether I am a victim of "circumstance or bad luck" (not) or if I allow others to control my outlook on life (not anymore).
I am blessed beyond anything I ever thought possible. I have a job, when so many other do not. I left a lousy marriage rather that stay unhappily married, as so many other do. And I have a dentist who just called me as I was typing this to see how my mouth was doing and to contact him anytime this weekend if I feel the need to.
Tonight is the night that my kids meet Babushka for the first time!!!! This day has been a long time coming and no matter what happens, Babushka and I have alot to be proud if - in each other and in ourselves!
Babushka and I finalized plans to visit my Mom and Dad in 6 weeks! I am so excited for them to meet the lovely Babushka - and they are excited too!!
Get Busy Livin' or Get Busy Dyin'
Take a good look at yourself (as the song goes....)
Divorce - A day sequestered with PB and two attorneys is never a good thing. I could rant for an hour but basically she refuses to consider discussing a settlement and wants everything. Trial is August 7th - at least there is a light at the end of the tunnel (or is that the train of poverty approaching?).
Work - For me, overwhelming as is typical. But my poor Babushka has to end her work week on a down note. An unhappy employee that she supports yelling and screaming to anyone who will listen that she will not work with Babushka........and why.......because this chowder printed a 4,000 page document multiple times, waited until the job was mid-print and then demanded that tech. support stop the print jobs (which they could not at that point). Therefore tech. support is incompetent.
Another lovely example of personal accountability going the way of the VHS. I feel so bad for my Babushka, as she takes these things personally - she is someone who cares to a fault about the service she provides. Unfortunately for her, even she cannot fix Stupid (to quote Ron White).
Teeth - What is this you say? Basically I had to have a molar painfully extracted last night, a mere 4 weeks after having a root canal on said tooth. Why not pile on me when I am down, right?
WRONG!!!
One of the wonderful aspects of recovery and life with Babushka is the fact that I choose whether I am a victim of "circumstance or bad luck" (not) or if I allow others to control my outlook on life (not anymore).
I am blessed beyond anything I ever thought possible. I have a job, when so many other do not. I left a lousy marriage rather that stay unhappily married, as so many other do. And I have a dentist who just called me as I was typing this to see how my mouth was doing and to contact him anytime this weekend if I feel the need to.
PLUS!!!
Tonight is the night that my kids meet Babushka for the first time!!!! This day has been a long time coming and no matter what happens, Babushka and I have alot to be proud if - in each other and in ourselves!
NOT ONLY THAT!!!
Babushka and I finalized plans to visit my Mom and Dad in 6 weeks! I am so excited for them to meet the lovely Babushka - and they are excited too!!
Get Busy Livin' or Get Busy Dyin'
Take a good look at yourself (as the song goes....)
Wednesday, April 23, 2008
A step forward. . .
For those of you following Kahuna's struggle for as much freedom as is possible when divorcing, today is the next step forward. We do not know how big of a step it will be. We have no false hopes that there will even be a decision about the house motion being brought forward. But, Kahuna is continually moving forward.
I do have fears about today. . . PB's attorney, if I remember right, had to cancel the appointment scheduled with Kahuna's attorney and the financial planner. Convenient for PB.
But, my dearest, most amazing Kahuna. . . I will be there with you today. I will be with you always. I adore you with all of my heart. I pray you have as much dignity and grace as the situation warrants.
I do have fears about today. . . PB's attorney, if I remember right, had to cancel the appointment scheduled with Kahuna's attorney and the financial planner. Convenient for PB.
But, my dearest, most amazing Kahuna. . . I will be there with you today. I will be with you always. I adore you with all of my heart. I pray you have as much dignity and grace as the situation warrants.
Tuesday, April 22, 2008
TMI #132
1). Pancakes or waffles? With or without toppings?
Kahuna – Belgian Waffles with Butter and Maple Syrup
Kahuna – Bypassing the obvious answer, I will say the way to my heart is through my brain.
3). Have you ever gone to a topless/clothing optional beach? If yes, did you participate?
Kahuna – Yes and Yes. When I lived in
4). What song reminds you of a previous relationship (for good or bad)?
Kahuna – Come A Little Closer by Dierks Bentley (OK – That is for my Babushka).
5). When, where and with who was your best kiss ever?
Kahuna – My best kiss will be the next kiss I share with babushka wherever we are.
Bonus (as in optional): Does anyone not currently in a relationship with you have pictures of you or your body part(s) that you would prefer that other people not see?
Kahuna – Nope
Sunday, April 20, 2008
The littlest things can mean the most
I just spent a wonderful evening with Babushka!!
No, not that, although there was plenty of that Friday night and again this morning - my ass is still tender, but then again one should always be willing to give and receive :-)
No, tonight my lovely Babushka and her BuddyLuv came over to my new basement for dinner and a movie. After always having me over at their place, it was a joy to return the favor. Even though it is a basement it is a well appointed 2 bedroom, one bath basement of a lovely house.
I made steak and baked potatoes, then later we visited Cold Stone. We came back and watched Oceans 13 on my new LCD TV (OK, BuddyLuv and I watched, Babushka snored on my lap).
I just put them both to bed and got them all tucked in for a nights sleep. It was an absolutely wonderful evening. I am blessed indeed.
Get Busy Livin' or Get Busy Dyin'
Life is Good
No, not that, although there was plenty of that Friday night and again this morning - my ass is still tender, but then again one should always be willing to give and receive :-)
No, tonight my lovely Babushka and her BuddyLuv came over to my new basement for dinner and a movie. After always having me over at their place, it was a joy to return the favor. Even though it is a basement it is a well appointed 2 bedroom, one bath basement of a lovely house.
I made steak and baked potatoes, then later we visited Cold Stone. We came back and watched Oceans 13 on my new LCD TV (OK, BuddyLuv and I watched, Babushka snored on my lap).
I just put them both to bed and got them all tucked in for a nights sleep. It was an absolutely wonderful evening. I am blessed indeed.
Get Busy Livin' or Get Busy Dyin'
Life is Good
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