I remember thinking "Once Babushka and I are in the same house we will finally be able to participate in HNT every week". Yeah-Right!!
We now are not only in the same house but are man and wife raising 3 kids and 2 dogs while working and going to school. Days into months mush together and now with fall here the calendar fills with school, sports, debate, holidays and the like.
I remember now what being married is like......although let me clarify that being I am happily married rather than what my last marriage was. I love my Babushka in a way that I never dreamed possible and am loved in turn by her the same. But real life is work - much different than 'staying over at each others house every other night'.
Which gets to our blog....one of the guilty pleasures that has been pushed to the back of the line. I read a few here and there - not sure about my lovely bride. We certainly do not participate as we thought we would. My office now blocks nearly every blog now so midday blog-surfing over lunch is a tyhing of the past. I miss our blogging, our joint TMI's and our HNT's.
Temporarily gone but not forgotten
We are busy livin' and for that I am greatful!!
Thursday, October 1, 2009
Tuesday, September 29, 2009
TMI Tuesday #206
1. Have you used put anything edible on (or in) your partner's body and then eaten it?
No I have not but have wondered what it would be like to slide a peeled banana into Babushka and.....
2. Have you ever had an AIDS test due to reasonable suspicion or hyperactive imagination?
Regrettibly Yes, after disclosing an affair to my ex-wife.
3. Have you ever fantasized about someone else other than your partner while you were engaged in sex, oral sex, or mutual masturbation?
Actually Babushka and I fantasized about her girlfriend together last night during sex, oral sex and masturbation!!
4. Have you ever engaged in sex, oral sex, or mutual masturbation while in a moving car? A car being driven by someone not engaged in the sex, oral sex, or mutual masturbation?
No, Yes and Yes.
5. Have you ever had sex so many times or for so long that one or both people involved runs dry?
Gladly yes - Babushka and I will get to the point where we are both sore but extatic
Bonus (as in optional): Name 5 things an unplanned (or planned) visitor would find in your bedroom?
1. Lubricant
2. Vibrators
3. Blindfold
4. Butt Plug
5. Laundry :-)
No I have not but have wondered what it would be like to slide a peeled banana into Babushka and.....
2. Have you ever had an AIDS test due to reasonable suspicion or hyperactive imagination?
Regrettibly Yes, after disclosing an affair to my ex-wife.
3. Have you ever fantasized about someone else other than your partner while you were engaged in sex, oral sex, or mutual masturbation?
Actually Babushka and I fantasized about her girlfriend together last night during sex, oral sex and masturbation!!
4. Have you ever engaged in sex, oral sex, or mutual masturbation while in a moving car? A car being driven by someone not engaged in the sex, oral sex, or mutual masturbation?
No, Yes and Yes.
5. Have you ever had sex so many times or for so long that one or both people involved runs dry?
Gladly yes - Babushka and I will get to the point where we are both sore but extatic
Bonus (as in optional): Name 5 things an unplanned (or planned) visitor would find in your bedroom?
1. Lubricant
2. Vibrators
3. Blindfold
4. Butt Plug
5. Laundry :-)
Tuesday, August 25, 2009
TMI Tuesday #201
1. Do you have "your" side of the bed? Which side?
Babushka and I each have our 'side' but that is misleading. Babushka will not go to sleep until she is spooned next to me on my side. I always joke that I truly only have the last 18 inches of the bed but when it is a nekkid Babushka on the other side who can complain?
2. How old is your pillow and what condition is it in?
We just bought new allergent-free pillows about 6 months ago so we are in good shape.
3. What is your favorite position to sleep in?
I usually will go from back to stomach then finally on my left side with Babushka pressed tight against my butt
4. How often do you change your sheets?
Not as often as we should probably - every month or so I guess.
5. What helps you fall asleep when insomnia strikes?
Blowjob (Babushka can stop laughing now) - Two ibuprofen or a sudafed work as well.
6. Does sex make you sleepy or energized?
Both - Depends on the time of day
7. What is the minimum amount of sleep that you need to be functional the next day.
I function best on about six to seven hours of sleep. Eight hours makes me sleepy throughout the day
Bonus (as in optional):Describe your most vivid dream.
This is a bad question for me - I seem to always forget my dreams when I wake up. The one I remember is about a week after Babushka and I were married - I was mad that some guy was sitting in my computer chair preventing me from drafting my fantasy football team so I smacked him. Unfortunately I smacked my Babushka right in the nose :-(. Our firs week of marriage was me stepping on babushka's foot and breaking her tow in two places followed by the smack to the nose.
I am sure lucky she really loves me.
Babushka and I each have our 'side' but that is misleading. Babushka will not go to sleep until she is spooned next to me on my side. I always joke that I truly only have the last 18 inches of the bed but when it is a nekkid Babushka on the other side who can complain?
2. How old is your pillow and what condition is it in?
We just bought new allergent-free pillows about 6 months ago so we are in good shape.
3. What is your favorite position to sleep in?
I usually will go from back to stomach then finally on my left side with Babushka pressed tight against my butt
4. How often do you change your sheets?
Not as often as we should probably - every month or so I guess.
5. What helps you fall asleep when insomnia strikes?
Blowjob (Babushka can stop laughing now) - Two ibuprofen or a sudafed work as well.
6. Does sex make you sleepy or energized?
Both - Depends on the time of day
7. What is the minimum amount of sleep that you need to be functional the next day.
I function best on about six to seven hours of sleep. Eight hours makes me sleepy throughout the day
Bonus (as in optional):Describe your most vivid dream.
This is a bad question for me - I seem to always forget my dreams when I wake up. The one I remember is about a week after Babushka and I were married - I was mad that some guy was sitting in my computer chair preventing me from drafting my fantasy football team so I smacked him. Unfortunately I smacked my Babushka right in the nose :-(. Our firs week of marriage was me stepping on babushka's foot and breaking her tow in two places followed by the smack to the nose.
I am sure lucky she really loves me.
Saturday, August 22, 2009
What is the best part of a Saturday??
Getting home at 10:00am from a great recovery meeting to your wife wanting to have sex.........................then after she has 3 straight orally-induced orgasms you lay a sheet over her so she can rest and doze off.
It feels so rewarding!!!!!!!
I love my wife, my lovely Babushka
It feels so rewarding!!!!!!!
I love my wife, my lovely Babushka
Tuesday, August 18, 2009
TMI Tuesday #200 (Happy Anniversary!!)
1. What is the longest you have been in a monogamous sexual relationship? [For the purpose of this question monogamous is defined as no sexual partners that your significant other does (did) not know about.]
Based on the description above that would be my lovely Babushka
2. If your current relationship would fail, do you have a back-up for physical or emotional comfort?
Back-up what? If this is another woman to take my Babushka's place than no I do not. I do have our kids and friends who would be able to fill much of the comfort role. i am blessed in that way.
3. Can you be "just friends" with someone when there is an unrequited sexual attraction?
Babushka and I were "work" friends for a period of time where we both were aware of feelings toward one another. We kept those feelings 'unrequited', as I was married at that time and neither of us wanted anything like a hookup or affair. Once I was separated I did not wait very long to ask her out on a date and the rest is beautiful history.
4. In a assumed monogamous sexual relationship have you ever cheated, been cheated upon or been a knowing third party to the infidelity? [For the purpose of this question monogamous is defined as no sexual partners that a significant other does (did) not know about.]
I had two affairs while I was married to my former wife and she eventually found out about both. The first one was immediately after our wedding and the other was at about the 9 year mark of our 17 yrs. Both women I had these affairs with were married as well and to my knowledge their husbands' never knew. Tough to read this - certainly nothing to be proud of.
5. Historically, what has caused the most arguments in your relationships?
Historically it would be sex and money. Babushka and I tend to not have really arguments about “things” – instead we discussions around how a decisions or action by one of us makes the other feel or what old wounds it triggers in us.
Bonus (as in optional):What do you want from a partner in a long term relationship?
What I already have in Babushka.
Based on the description above that would be my lovely Babushka
2. If your current relationship would fail, do you have a back-up for physical or emotional comfort?
Back-up what? If this is another woman to take my Babushka's place than no I do not. I do have our kids and friends who would be able to fill much of the comfort role. i am blessed in that way.
3. Can you be "just friends" with someone when there is an unrequited sexual attraction?
Babushka and I were "work" friends for a period of time where we both were aware of feelings toward one another. We kept those feelings 'unrequited', as I was married at that time and neither of us wanted anything like a hookup or affair. Once I was separated I did not wait very long to ask her out on a date and the rest is beautiful history.
4. In a assumed monogamous sexual relationship have you ever cheated, been cheated upon or been a knowing third party to the infidelity? [For the purpose of this question monogamous is defined as no sexual partners that a significant other does (did) not know about.]
I had two affairs while I was married to my former wife and she eventually found out about both. The first one was immediately after our wedding and the other was at about the 9 year mark of our 17 yrs. Both women I had these affairs with were married as well and to my knowledge their husbands' never knew. Tough to read this - certainly nothing to be proud of.
5. Historically, what has caused the most arguments in your relationships?
Historically it would be sex and money. Babushka and I tend to not have really arguments about “things” – instead we discussions around how a decisions or action by one of us makes the other feel or what old wounds it triggers in us.
Bonus (as in optional):What do you want from a partner in a long term relationship?
What I already have in Babushka.
Tuesday, August 4, 2009
TMI #198 - Relationships
1. Family is Dysfunctional but necessary.
2. Friends are Occasional but necessary.
3. Exes are good at being a big pain in the ass (OK - that is just my personal rant).
4. Strangers are friends we have not met yet (OK - this response even makes me ill but it was all I could think of).
5. Relationships work best when respect is mutual.
Bonus: Tell us about your first love:
Pretty Standard Fare:
1st Girlfriend - both 14 years old - 2 years long - My 1st kisses and 1st "touches"
Seems pretty tame by today's standards but it still warms my heart when I think of it..........just like my Babushka!!
2. Friends are Occasional but necessary.
3. Exes are good at being a big pain in the ass (OK - that is just my personal rant).
4. Strangers are friends we have not met yet (OK - this response even makes me ill but it was all I could think of).
5. Relationships work best when respect is mutual.
Bonus: Tell us about your first love:
Pretty Standard Fare:
1st Girlfriend - both 14 years old - 2 years long - My 1st kisses and 1st "touches"
Seems pretty tame by today's standards but it still warms my heart when I think of it..........just like my Babushka!!
Tuesday, July 28, 2009
TMI Tuesday #197 - Nonsexual Edition
1. The three words that best describe you are Supportive, Polite, and Funny.
2. The three words that best describe your life are Joyful, Fulfilling, and Overdue.
3. Your three guilty pleasures are Pistachios, Ice Cream, and Kisses from my wife.
4. The three places you would like to visit before you die are Greece, Key West, and Maine.
5. The three things you would like to do before you die are Travel to Greece with Babushka on my 50th Birthday, Watch my 3 kids graduate, and Celebrate my 20th Anniversary with my Babushka.
Happy TMI Tuesday Everyone!!!!!!!!
2. The three words that best describe your life are Joyful, Fulfilling, and Overdue.
3. Your three guilty pleasures are Pistachios, Ice Cream, and Kisses from my wife.
4. The three places you would like to visit before you die are Greece, Key West, and Maine.
5. The three things you would like to do before you die are Travel to Greece with Babushka on my 50th Birthday, Watch my 3 kids graduate, and Celebrate my 20th Anniversary with my Babushka.
Happy TMI Tuesday Everyone!!!!!!!!
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