1. What is the best relationship advice you've ever received?
KAHUNA – “Get Busy Livin’ or Get Busy Dyin’” – Morgan Freeman
BABUSHKA - I think that has to have more than one answer. 1) Your partner will only treat you how you allow them to treat you! I know this is a hard pill to swallow. Trust me! I know! But, it is very true! 2) Patience. Good things come to those who wait. That does not mean sit at home waiting for Mr. Right to come knocking on your doorstep. He PROBABLY wont. BUT, it means don't be searching for him under every rock, either. 3) If the answer is not a YES, than it is a no.
2. How many people have you dated at once? How many people do you think it is acceptable to date at once?
KAHUNA – I guess 2 or possibly 3 back in my Hawaii days.
BABUSHKA - I have never dated more than one person at a time. But, I have always had a different philosophy on dating. I have never dated "just to have fun". I have always dated with someone I could "imagine" longer terms with. Even if they were made up. . .
3. What made your worst kiss so bad?
KAHUNA – Fear and inexperience
BABUSHKA - Um. . . being totally choked with the entire tongue stuck down my throat. Yeah, nice!
4. Can a relationship last if the sex is bad?
KAHUNA – I could spend a paragraph on the complexity and contradictory thoughts I have endured on this topic over 20 years. To spare everyone the boredom – For me the answer is no.
BABUSHKA - I would have to say I don't know. With all of the other parts of a relationship. . . I cannot say. I would say yes for some people and no for others. Thats not to say there is anything right or wrong with falling into those categories. Just that I believe almost anything is possible.
5. What one thing would you like your partner to do every time you have sex with them?
KAHUNA – Smile
BABUSHKA - Smile :-) (and kiss my forehead and lay with my head on his chest)