My turn

1. If they kept stats of your sex life like they do in sports, what would you lead the league in? what all time record would you hold?
KAHUNA – Record of consecutive shut-outs/strikeouts between hits during a marital season followed by “Cumback player of the year” after signing with a new organization.
BABUSHKA – I would lead the league in number of homeruns with my current organization. However, I will probably always hold the Record of Bunts (that’s a fake hit, right) from past organizations!

2. What song gets you in the mood to have sex? best music to fuck to? best music to make love to?
KAHUNA – It is funny that as much as I love music, nothing immediately comes to mind for this question. I guess Babushka and I better start working on this.
BABUSHKA – I know, I am a sap, but almost any song from the I Wanna Fuck You Like An Animal song to She’s Everything To Me can get me in the mood when I think about listening to them with Kahuna. I couldn’t even tell you a single song that has played while we were making love, having sex or fucking, though. I am so focused on us and the moment!

3. Where is your favorite place to have sex in your house/apartment?
KAHUNA – Anywhere in Babushka’s house rocks, but I love the fully clothed handjobs while sitting on the couch watching TV.
BABUSKHA – Favorite place? I guess I do not have one. I will take Kahuna where ever I can get him!

4. (girls) Have you sent or given your used panties to a guy? Do you know what happened to them? (guys) Have you taken/asked for a girls panties before? What did you do with them? (non-breeders) What is the protocol for this "tradition"?
KAHUNA – Too Funny-Babushka slipped a pair of hers in my jeans pocket a week ago and asked me what I did with them (Hope I find them before my son does!).
BABUSHKA – There’s your answer.

5. What makes a kiss a great to you?
KAHUNA – Soft Lips and a warm heart
BABUSHKA – Everything behind the kiss.

6. Bonus: Who pays for a date? If the girl asks a guy out, does she pay? If you are interested in same sex partners, how do you determine who pays?
KAHUNA – Whoever invites should pay the price
BABUSHKA – Agreed.

TMI #107

1. If they kept stats of your sex life like they do in sports, what would you lead the league in? what all time record would you hold?

KAHUNA – Record of consecutive shut-outs/strikeouts between hits during a marital season followed by “Cumback player of the year” after signing with a new organization.

2. What song gets you in the mood to have sex? best music to fuck to? best music to make love to?

KAHUNA – It is funny that as much as I love music, nothing immediately comes to mind for this question. I guess Babushka and I better start working on this.

3. Where is your favorite place to have sex in your house/apartment?

KAHUNA – Anywhere in Babushka’s house rocks, but I love the fully clothed handjobs while sitting on the couch watching TV.

4. (girls) Have you sent or given your used panties to a guy? Do you know what happened to them? (guys) Have you taken/asked for a girls panties before? What did you do with them? (non-breeders) What is the protocol for this "tradition"?

KAHUNA – Too Funny-Babushka slipped a pair of hers in my jeans pocket a week ago and asked me what I did with them (Hope I find them before my son does!).

5. What makes a kiss a great to you?
KAHUNA – Soft Lips and a warm heart

Bonus: Who pays for a date? If the girl asks a guy out, does she pay? If you are interested in same sex partners, how do you determine who pays?

KAHUNA – Whoever invites should pay the price

World Series HNT

I thought that for a change of pace I would give the beautiful one a respite so this week's HNT is Babushka-Free (I can hear the complaints now!!!)

This week is in tribute of the underdog Colorado Rockies as they take on the "new"evil empire of the North East. My first trip to see 'outdoor baseball' was my 4th of July trip to Coors Field. These are my feet in left field before the fireworks...which were awesome!!

Happy HNT to everyone!!

My Turn

1. What are your 7 favorite tactile things that turn you on? Sex (like oral, or penetrative) cannot be an answer. (Examples: silk, light tickling, etc).
1) The flex of his arm as we walk
2) Soft fingers caressing me anywhere
3) Kisses on my temple/forehead/neck
4) The sight of him dressed up for work
5) The smell of his cologne on my clothes
6) The smell of his cock left on my hands
7) The massages

2. What are your non-genital errogenous zones and what do you like done to them?
1) My neck for nibbling
2) My fingers/toes for sucking
3) My butt cheeks for caressing
4) My lips for all of the above
5) The small of my back for all of the above

3. What sounds get you sexually charged?
1) His laughter
2) The sound of a moan
3) The sound of a gentle kiss
4) His heart beating out of his chest where my head lays
5) The sounds of two or more women enjoying their sexual adventures

4. After losing your virginity, what is the longest you’ve gone without penetrative sex?
2+ years

5. What is your least favorite sexual position? Why don't you like it?
Hmmmm. . . The only one I can think of is doggy style because I have bad knees and a tummy.

Bonus (as in optional): If you could sexually dominate or submit to 5 people - any 5, currently living or deceased - which 5 would it be?
1) Kahuna
2) Angelina Jolie
3) Shabari because of those pictures
4) Gillette because of her sensuality and knowledge
5) Dierks Bentley

TMI Tuesday #106

1. What are your 7 favorite tactile things that turn you on? Sex (like oral, or penetrative) cannot be an answer. (Examples: silk, light tickling, etc).
Kahuna
· Kissing Babushka’s Neck
· Giving Babushka a massage w/ lotion
· Babushka lightly touching/rubbing my neck, arms, chest (OK-Anywhere works)
· Talking about naughty scenarios involving another woman/other women with Babushka
· Babushka mouthing naughty thoughts in her mind of what she wants while we are out in public.
· Hearing Babushka say to me “Guess What….”
· Babushka following “Guess What….” with “…..I adore you”

2. What are your non-genital errogenous zones and what do you like done to them?
Kahuna
· My Neck: Kissed softly and rubbed
· My Feet: Massaged with lotion
· My Butt: Licked and gently bit

3. What sounds get you sexually charged?
Kahuna
· The sound of a vibrator
· The sound of Babushka’s voice

4. After losing your virginity, what is the longest you’ve gone without penetrative sex?
Kahuna
· Before Marriage – Approx. 16 Months
· During Marriage – Approx. 21 Months
· Since Babushka – Less than 1 Month

5. What is your least favorite sexual position? Why don't you like it?
Kahuna
· I suppose I would say reverse cowgirl, because Babushka and I have never done it and when she is on top I like seeing her face and breasts.

Bonus (as in optional): If you could sexually dominate or submit to 5 people - any 5, currently living or deceased - which 5 would it be?

Kahuna
· Babushka (of course)
· Jewel De’ Nyle
· Jennifer Love-Hewitt
· Shibari – Of course she would be dominated by both Babushka and I!!!
· Gillette – Not for D/S but to have her personally teach Babushka and I the ‘ins and outs’ of Tantric Sex

A New Day HNT

A new day is dawning indeed!!!

Babushka and I have been unable to 'connect' in far too long. This has left us both somewhat "Randie" (as Austin Powers would say). This has meant self-connection as the order of the day. That said I swung by the video store to rent a movie for said self-connection purposes.

For many who blog this I am sure is a 'so what' event. For a person who has struggled with pornography addiction all through his youth and marriage this is an action fraught with danger. For anyone who has an addictive personality, you know that much of the power of an addiction comes from its' secrecy:

• "I am not hurting anyone"......
• "I am not doing anything wrong".....
• "It's better than the alternative".....
• "She won't care".....
• "She is better off not knowing anyway"......
• "This is the last time anyway".....

The list could go on ad infinitum. The reality of the guilt and shame felt by the person in addiction proves all of the above excuses (and any others) to be nothing but lies we tell ourself.

So why am I blogging all this? Because yesterday I told Babushka that I was feeling the need to take care of my own business and let her know that I had rented a movie for the task "at hand". This morning we spoke in detail about my evening of "hard work" and the details of the movie (Maison Erotique - Evil Angel).

The most rewarding part of the entire evening was not the orgasm but the intimacy in sharing my fears, my needs, my desires .......the sharing of my transparent self......to my beautiful Babushka.

Instead of ending this entry with my typical tagline I will leave you with a photo of my lovely Babushka and an ability to click for a little bit more - Thanks ~D for all your help!

Babushka is the woman I dreamed about through years of loneliness and sorrow. I never believed she would be anything more than a wish and a whisper.

I am blessed..............

TMI #105 - Dating Edition

1. What was the first movie you saw on a date??
KAHUNA – I have no recollection – Waaaay to long ago
BABUSHKA - Goodness, that was a long time ago! Must not have been too exciting cause I have no clue!

2. Who was the first person you kissed on a date? [First name is fine.]?
KAHUNA – My first girlfriend, Lena when I was 15 years old
BABUSHKA - Goodness, that was a long time ago! Must not have been too exciting cause I have no clue!

3. Where was the first place you ever "parked" (on a date)?
KAHUNA – I assume it was with the gal from question #2, unless ‘parked’ assumes you went all the way with the person.
BABUSHKA - At 16, it was a very icky older man. . . Nothing I would like to remember!

4. Have you ever gone on a date with someone you met via the internet? If not, would you?
KAHUNA – I have not internet dated and the only way that would occur is if there was a post-Babushka period in my life (Not holding my breath)…….unless we are looking together for a beautiful third.
BABUSHKA - Nightmare! The first one told me before we had even ordered dinner what scrumptious I was, what he would do to me and how much I would love it! Great guy! I was too "polite" to run out screaming. So, I stuck around. . . Then about 1/2 way through the meal that the person who kept calling him was someone else he has met and already done all those things to, which is why she would not stop calling him. . . Followed by the admission that he was new to the state and did not yet have a job. But, if I were to pick up the check, he would promise to be worth it. Anyone surprised that I took down my ad that night and blocked all contact? When I felt I was ready to try again, the first date then was a really sweet guy who took me out for a nice evening and who was so enamored by me that he could not even kiss me goodnight. The next day, he told me he could see himself asking me to marry him within 6 months. . . I gave up internet dating!

5. What is the most romantic thing you have done on a first date?
KAHUNA – Romantic is so subjective based on who it is with and the expectations for said date. As an example, before my first ‘official’ date with Babushka I surprised her at a Dierks Bentley concert with a Cowboy hat in hand so she would have one at the concert.
BABUSHKA - Every date I have with Kahuna is romantic, no matter what we are doing. Heck, he even makes doing laundry romantic!

Bonus (as in optional): Describe the best date you have ever been on.
KAHUNA – Every next-date with Babushka is my best date. As we are celebrating her Birthday on Saturday, that will be the best date I have been on - unless I f*ck it up :-)
BABUSHKA - Really? Hmm. . . Stay tuned, folks!

Hugs to all!

TMI #105 - Dating Edition

1. What was the first movie you saw on a date??
KAHUNA – I have no recollection – Waaaay to long ago

2. Who was the first person you kissed on a date? [First name is fine.]?
KAHUNA – My first girlfriend, Lena when I was 15 years old

3. Where was the first place you ever "parked" (on a date)?
KAHUNA – I assume it was with the gal from question #2, unless ‘parked’ assumes you went all the way with the person.

4. Have you ever gone on a date with someone you met via the internet? If not, would you?
KAHUNA – I have not internet dated and the only way that would occur is if there was a post-Babushka period in my life (Not holding my breath)…….unless we are looking together for a beautiful third.

5. What is the most romantic thing you have done on a first date?
KAHUNA – Romantic is so subjective based on who it is with and the expectations for said date. As an example, before my first ‘official’ date with Babushka I surprised her at a Dierks Bentley concert with a Cowboy hat in hand so she would have one at the concert.

Bonus (as in optional): Describe the best date you have ever been on.
KAHUNA – Every next-date with Babushka is my best date. As we are celebrating her Birthday on Saturday, that will be the best date I have been on - unless I f*ck it up :-)

Double Breasted HNT

This is a first for us - a joint HNT!!

I decided to overcome my self-consciousness and post a pic that Babushka took from above.












As most of us, I see myself as less than attractive, although that is changing. It is amazing how as we feel better about ourselves on the inside that we see ourselves as more attractive on the outside. One thing though - I swear I am not that pale!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! (nor is my stomach that big is it???)

Oh well, the lens never lies.....Have a great HNT everyone!

Get Busy Livin' or Get Busy Dyin'

Hi all! It has taken me an hour just to get to this point where I can type, so it will not be pretty tonight! Sorry!


TMI #104:

1. Wash up, cuddle or fall asleep?
KAHUNA – Absolutely, Positively, Without Question cuddle with Babushka (and wait for round 2)
BABUSHKA - Cuddle up! Oh, I could use that right now!

2. Have you ever fake orgasms?
KAHUNA – Yes I have, even though many people think men are not able or capable to. Perhaps there are different reasons, though. Seems women typically fake in order to make their partner feel better about themselves. In my case it was simply to get the experience over with. I thank the good lord every day that is never an issue with my Babushka!
BABUSHKA - Every time I had vaginal intercourse before Kahuna and about 50% of the time when it was any other play before Kahuna!

3. In any 24 hour period, what is the most number of times you have ever had sex?
KAHUNA – I believe if I recall correctly the answer is 4 times in a previous life (Sorry Babushka – we can work on that!)
BABUSHKA - 8. But, I seam to recall a time when the kids were gone and Kahuna and I tied that 4. . . Or, maybe that did not count because it was continuous with a bit of sleep inbetween. . .

4. Have you ever had sex or give/received oral sex while you were driving a car?
KAHUNA – Yes, although for me I am less interested as I get older. I am a bad enough driver as it is and these days I would rather pull over and molest Babushka anyway!
BABUSHKA - Given, yep! Received, that would be difficult!

5. What do you think the average number of sexual partners your sex has in their lifetime (so for me a male)? Do you think most people lie when asked?
KAHUNA – First, as a guy I would say it is a virtual certainty that guy lie! (bragging is not nearly as enjoyable if confined to the truth). I would have no clue what average is but I would guess somewhere between 5 and 10 female partners. Based on my gay friends I think the number is double for same-sex male partners
BABUSHKA - I think for women the average is about 8-12. That may sound like a lot, but the average of us have been single for a LONG TIME!

Bonus (as in optional): Can men and women be "just friends?" (Explain)
KAHUNA – Certainly men and women can be ‘just friends’, if neither person has any attraction to the other. If there is underlying sexual tension for one but not the other than it is still possibly but uncomfortable. If both have an underlying attraction to the other then that is a different story.
BABUSHKA - That is SO true! I second that!

TMI #104:

1. Wash up, cuddle or fall asleep?
KAHUNA – Absolutely, Positively, Without Question cuddle with Babushka (and wait for round 2)

2. Have you ever fake orgasms?
KAHUNA – Yes I have, even though many people think men are not able or capable to. Perhaps there are different reasons, though. Seems women typically fake in order to make their partner feel better about themselves. In my case it was simply to get the experience over with. I thank the good lord every day that is never an issue with my Babushka!

3. In any 24 hour period, what is the most number of times you have ever had sex?
KAHUNA – I believe if I recall correctly the answer is 4 times in a previous life (Sorry Babushka – we can work on that!)

4. Have you ever had sex or give/received oral sex while you were driving a car?
KAHUNA – Yes, although for me I am less interested as I get older. I am a bad enough driver as it is and these days I would rather pull over and molest Babushka anyway!

5. What do you think the average number of sexual partners your sex has in their lifetime (so for me a male)? Do you think most people lie when asked?
KAHUNA – First, as a guy I would say it is a virtual certainty that guy lie! (bragging is not nearly as enjoyable if confined to the truth). I would have no clue what average is but I would guess somewhere between 5 and 10 female partners. Based on my gay friends I think the number is double for same-sex male partners

Bonus (as in optional): Can men and women be "just friends?" (Explain)
KAHUNA – Certainly men and women can be ‘just friends’, if neither person has any attraction to the other. If there is underlying sexual tension for one but not the other than it is still possibly but uncomfortable. If both have an underlying attraction to the other then that is a different story.

Boobie-Thon HNT

In checking out the ringleaders site, he is promoting the annual "Best of Breasts" parade. Sounds like a good cause (although is a cause necessary to worship and ogle boobies??).

With that in mind I have a joint HNT - My hands on Babushka's boobies













We tried Babushka's hands on my boobies - for some reason it just does not have the same effect ;-)

GET BUSY LIVIN' OR GET BUSY DYIN'

my turn

Early bird or night owl?
KAHUNA – I am definitely an Early Bird (always have been). I get up at about 4:45 so I can go to the gym and work out before work.
BABUSHKA – MidDay. . . I cannot get myself up at 4:45 to go to the gym when Kahuna does. But, I like to be in bed early,too!

If you could only be one, would you rather be smart or good looking?
KAHUNA – Smart – I already know I can get by without being good-looking.
BABUSHKA – Smart – Then you are smart enough to succeed on more than just your looks.

Do you gossip?
KAHUNA – Not very often – Certainly not as much as most people but more than I would like (any gossip is too much).
BABUSHKA – Ditto.

On a scale of 1-10, how adventurous are you? (1 is lowest, 10 is highest)
KAHUNA – This is seemingly too broad of a question. As an example – 8.75 on sexual adventures but 1.25 on hunting adventures.
BABUSHKA – 7.5 for just about everything!

On a scale of 1-10, how good a kisser do you think you are? ( ditto )
KAHUNA – I am a 10 when I am kissing Babushka – Probably a 2 with anyone else.
BABUSHKA – You off the charts, Kahuna! I would guess I am a 10 for Kahuna, 7.5 for most everyone else. . .

Bonus (as in optional): What do you consider the biggest turn on out of the following? a) lingerie b) movies c) toys d) role playing e) leather f) none of this does anything for me
KAHUNA – g). All of the above / h). Any combination of a-e
BABUSHKA – A, B, C, D, C (oops, already said that)!

TMI #103

Happy TMI everyone - come back and read my Babushka!!

1). Early bird or night owl?
KAHUNA – I am definitely an Early Bird (always have been). I get up at about 4:45 so I can go to the gym and work out before work.

2). If you could only be one, would you rather be smart or good looking?
KAHUNA – Smart – I already know I can get by without being good-looking.

3). Do you gossip?
KAHUNA – Not very often – Certainly not as much as most people but more than I would like (any gossip is too much).

4). On a scale of 1-10, how adventurous are you? (1 is lowest, 10 is highest)
KAHUNA – This is seemingly too broad of a question. As an example – 8.75 on sexual adventures but 1.25 on hunting adventures.

5). On a scale of 1-10, how good a kisser do you think you are? ( ditto )
KAHUNA – I am a 10 when I am kissing Babushka – Probably a 2 with anyone else.

Bonus (as in optional): What do you consider the biggest turn on out of the following? a) lingerie b) movies c) toys d) role playing e) leather f) none of this does anything for me.
KAHUNA – g). All of the above / h). Any combination of a-e