Tuesday, March 11, 2008

TMI #126 - Not for the faint of heart

1). Is sex hotter for you when it’s forbidden? Or do you get wracked with guilt and it’s not enjoyable?
KAHUNA – Depends on the definition of forbidden. Based on the guilt angle I would assume the inference is an affair or such, in which case the ongoing guilt outweighs any pleasure of the activity itself.
BABUSHKA - Very good answer, my dear. Forbidden according to whom? The only "forbidden" sex I can think of involves those who cannot answer for themselves (children/animals/those incapable of making such decisions, etc) or sex that hurts your partner (affairs). Those types of sex would not be enjoyable or hot.

2). Are casual sexual encounters fulfilling to you? Do you need an emotional commitment from your partner for sex to be fulfilling?
KAHUNA – Again, fulfilling can be many things, but I find that the emotional commitment and connection I have with Babushka allows me to feel safe, relax and get my freak on!!!.
BABUSHKA - In my personal opinion and experience, casual sexual encounters are the least fulfulling! I once wanted to live the strong, sex in the city life. It hurt. I am now in the most amazing, emotionally, spiritually and intimately committed relationship I have ever been in. And, it feels beyond words.

3). Do you think that with all of the online dating sites that cater to every fetish and desire and places like craigslist that it’s more difficult to make a commitment and/or stay committed to your partner?
KAHUNA – Not at all
BABUSHKA - Not at all.

4). Have you ever joined or participated in an online dating site? If not, would you ever consider it? What about a fetish site, such as alt.com?
KAHUNA – I have never joined an online service. I have never been to alt.com or anything like that but I would visit it with my Babushka, although I do not see joining being something we would do.
BABUSHKA - I have used 3 services. And, have very little good to say about them. . . I will have to write about it sometime. I have never relaly been to a fetish site. I would like to see one, sometime. But, I cannot see spending money on it.

5). What is the weirdest fetish you've heard of?
KAHUNA – Everyone’s “weirdest’ is different. The internet is full of fetishes weirder than the previous weirdest.
BABUSHKA - I try not to judge. "Wierd" is so subjective. But, as long as #1 is followed, go at it and be happy!

Bonus (as in optional): The definition of 'fetish' is so vague. Do you think you have a fetish(s)? If so, do you want to share what it is? ;)
KAHUNA – Do I think I have a fetish (Don’t we all?)……probably my fascination with butts and anal sex play is safe to discuss. Do I want to share it…….Every chance I can with Babushka!!!
BABUSHKA - Hmmm. . . I cannot think of anything I would consider a fetish. . .

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