TMI

All~ I am so sorry these are so late! BuddyLuv had middle school orientation tonight. Wow, facing that was exhausting! Nothing like confirming that I am getting older faster! Hope everyone has had a positive day!

1. What is the best relationship advice you've ever received?
KAHUNA – “Get Busy Livin’ or Get Busy Dyin’” – Morgan Freeman
BABUSHKA - I think that has to have more than one answer. 1) Your partner will only treat you how you allow them to treat you! I know this is a hard pill to swallow. Trust me! I know! But, it is very true! 2) Patience. Good things come to those who wait. That does not mean sit at home waiting for Mr. Right to come knocking on your doorstep. He PROBABLY wont. BUT, it means don't be searching for him under every rock, either. 3) If the answer is not a YES, than it is a no.

2. How many people have you dated at once? How many people do you think it is acceptable to date at once?
KAHUNA – I guess 2 or possibly 3 back in my Hawaii days.
BABUSHKA - I have never dated more than one person at a time. But, I have always had a different philosophy on dating. I have never dated "just to have fun". I have always dated with someone I could "imagine" longer terms with. Even if they were made up. . .

3. What made your worst kiss so bad?
KAHUNA – Fear and inexperience
BABUSHKA - Um. . . being totally choked with the entire tongue stuck down my throat. Yeah, nice!

4. Can a relationship last if the sex is bad?
KAHUNA – I could spend a paragraph on the complexity and contradictory thoughts I have endured on this topic over 20 years. To spare everyone the boredom – For me the answer is no.
BABUSHKA - I would have to say I don't know. With all of the other parts of a relationship. . . I cannot say. I would say yes for some people and no for others. Thats not to say there is anything right or wrong with falling into those categories. Just that I believe almost anything is possible.

5. What one thing would you like your partner to do every time you have sex with them?
KAHUNA – Smile
BABUSHKA - Smile :-) (and kiss my forehead and lay with my head on his chest)

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Kahuna, I miss you!

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Kahuna, I adore you!

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Only a few more hours and I will be in your arms again! If I do not get a chance to talk to you, know you will be in my prayers tonight. But, then again, you know that you always are!

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Always your Babushka!

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TMI Tuesday #98

This week's TMI is much more tame than last week - perhaps someone will read them this week :-)

Please com back later tonight to read what the lovely Babushka has to add!

1. What is the best relationship advice you've ever received?
KAHUNA – “Get Busy Livin’ or Get Busy Dyin’” – Morgan Freeman

2. How many people have you dated at once? How many people do you think it is acceptable to date at once?
KAHUNA – I guess 2 or possibly 3 back in my Hawaii days.

3. What made your worst kiss so bad?
KAHUNA – Fear and inexperience

4. Can a relationship last if the sex is bad?
KAHUNA – I could spend a paragraph on the complexity and contradictory thoughts I have endured on this topic over 20 years. To spare everyone the boredom – For me the answer is no.

5. What one thing would you like your partner to do every time you have
sex with them?
KAHUNA – Smile

Remember When #2

Remember when I fell in the elevator?

About a month before we took the plunge into this unknown and blissful world of us, I took a plunge in the elevators at work! I had on my black heels with the strap and double buckle around the ankle. I walked out to our elevator lobby and there you were! Oh, you were so beautiful! And, I was so distracted!

You were going up. I was going down to leave for the day. My elevator came first, so I took one step into the elevator. . . BAM! I caught the heel just right in the minimal space between the lobby floor and the elevator floor and down I went. Face first! It was all I could do, to fight back the tears of embarrassment! You rushed to the door, but it all happened so quickly and someone else was already helping me up.

My heel was broken and those shoes are long gone. My pride was broken, but has long since healed. But it was the look of sadness in your eyes that really stands out. I could see the caring and concern in your face.

You were always my knight in shining armour. It is not that you did not help me up. It was that you wanted to help me up. You wanted to break my fall. You cared and care even more every day. You would go out of your way to watch out for me. That is what makes you my knight in shining armour!


Get Busy Livin' or Get Busy Dyin'!
This is us livin' in all of our glory!

Remember When #1

Shortly before we gave life to this blog, becoming Kahuna and Babushka, Kahuna was following some blogs. I remember the first one he mentioned, An American in Greece . . . He also mentioned how he started to see couples blogs like Their Epidermis is Showing. They could be so intimate! So wild! So erotic! They could be anything!

Everyone has a reason to be blogging, if only to find their reason for blogging. He started what is now our blog in the hopes of someday sharing it with me. I have struggled a bit when it comes to blogging.

***I really do not have anything to say that is profound and thought provoking like Gillette - Courtesan not Razor, whom we have read from day one.

***I don’t have amazing erotic stories like so many of you.

***I don’t have a many issues for which I need advice and resolution(for those of you who write about those issues, I wish you peace and patience as you resolve those issues).

***And, I don't know everyone on this earth like Osbasso - Man, Myth and Legend, who has inspired so many with HNT!

Then today, it struck me. Why did I, Babushka, start blogging?

It was not only because I loved the thought that, at the beginning of “us” beginning something like a blog. It was because I truly saw this as something bigger than an on line journal. I saw this as our opportunity to create something everlasting that we can look back on someday and share laughs and smiles. A “remember when” mixed with a “look what we made it through”. But, that doesn’t work when you do not write what you want to remember!

So, here is my first “REMEMBER WHEN”!

Remember when. . . I got my concussion?

Lets see, we would have been together about what. . . 6 months. BuddyLuv was in bed. We were sitting sideways on the couch, facing each other. Whatever you were saying, you had me laughing so hard that I rolled backwards (I thought it was soft up to that point)!

The corner of the wood within the padding hit the back of my head just right. . . BAM! OUCH!

For a second, everything was black. BuddyLuv heard the crash and came out to see what had happened. I was laughing while crying and you were holding me while trying to explain to BuddyLuv that I was ok and what had happened.

You held me for a moment and asked if you should take me to the hospital. I told you I was fine. I could see the concern on your face, so I tried to convince you I was fine. I told you it was late. You needed to get home and sleep. I shooed you out the door even though you offered to stay.

Less than 5 minutes later I called you in a panic because I had come to my senses, sort of, and realized that my sight was not right. I kind of freaked out.

In no time, you were there again, by my side, comforting me as best you could. . . being there so I could relax. No matter what we have ever gone though, just your presence alone calms me. I laid there against your chest, trying to stay calm. I relaxed.

About an hour later, you said my eyes looked better. I just wanted to go to bed. Not my smartest move. Thank God His Angels were watching over me and allowed me to wake the next morning!

My sight still acting up, I drove to work in the hopes of getting an appointment at Urgent Care. Yeah, not a smart move, either. 30 minutes after I got to work, I was in tears, scared about my sight. They would not see me at Urgent Care and advised that I was to go straight to the hospital. Without a second thought, you canceled meetings and took me to the nearest hospital. You sat with me for forever waiting to get in. I was fine. I knew I was. . . sort of. . . So I asked you to please go back to work. You are an important man and I greatly appreciated your being there and dropping everything for me. But, this time, it was unnecessary.

Yep, I had a concussion. They were not too worried about my sight, it was already getting better. If it were not all the way better in a few days, I should follow up with my doctor. So, back you came to get me.

You are my Kahuna. I adore you with all my smiling heart!

Get Busy Livin' or Get Busy Dyin'!

This is us livin' in all of our glory!

Tropical / Topical HNT

Before today's HNT I must say I got the most wonderful call at the gym this morning. I had just gotten out of the shower after exercising and who was on the phone but my lovely Babushka. She called to inform me that she was Nekkid and thinking of me. She proceeded to grab her silver bullet and bring herself to a gloriously loud orgasm while I was trying to hold the phone and get dressed. I know the older gentleman was wondering what I was doing - on my cellphone but barely saying a word (other than "cum for me" as she started to orgasm).

With school starting soon for her son and my kids, our summer of sexual freedom has now come to an end. We will need to use technology to help us "fill in the gap". Of course, a woman playing with her pussy and cumming on the phone is erotic - guys stroking their cock on the phone is not and is a sure fire way to find oneself on NBC dateline.

Now to the HNT............................Nothing too risque this week but personally enjoy seeing Babushka's 36DD's all dolled up..........begging me to set them free!!!!

Happy TMI to all of you

TMI Tuesday #97

1. What is the deal with Blue Balls?
KAHUNA – The deal with it is that it bites!! I typically get blue (sore) balls from things other than lack of sex – like too much sex. Seriously – they are painful and occur from awkward stretches, sitting on them, etc… One disadvantage of being a guy I suppose.
BABUSHKA - I always thought they were a myth to convince young girls that the you guys NEED to have sex! After all, the young girls cause them, right!?!

2. What is the hottest vehicular sex scene in a movie?
KAHUNA – Good Question – No scene comes to mind right now.
BABUSHKA - Uhm. . . I know it was not a movie, but it should have been! There was a time when Kahuna drove me home and drove me to a powerful orgasm along the way! In a real movie, I can only remember pieces of the only vehicular sex scene I can remember. . . Something about a guy (Tall, Dark, Handsome. . . on a sitcom now. . .) who kidnaps a lady (blond rich girl) with a candy bar as the fake gun and I think they run to Mexico. . . But I remember the drive scene!

3. Strap-on? yes, no, give, receive?
KAHUNA – Neither as of yet but absolutely open to both give and receive. Babushka and I are both extremely fond of activities which would promote the use of such an apparatus.
BABUSHKA - Kahuna, you are too perfect for me! Yes, we both love toys and are always looking forward to the next adventure! I would love to find a strap-on with vibrator on my side so that I can cum as I am stroking my "cock" in and out of his ass watching him enjoy the open, safe, environment we create. Before, the thought would have scared the crap out of me! A man open to play such as this was gay and therefore NOT someone I would want to be with. But now, I have learned that we are both at a place where we want to please. As long as we stay within this safe, open, honest and transparent environment we have created, there is no need to avoid what may be a beautiful thing out of fear. There is no fear. As for receiving/giving with another female, I guess I have thought about it and the idea is pleasing. It is a nice thought and cane make for some nice photos.

4. What is the average penis length?
KAHUNA – 3 Inches…………Damn, I am well hung!!!!!
BABUSHKA - UHM....... I would have to see them ALL to get an average.

5. How do you stimulate his prostate? Guys, do you like it?
KAHUNA – Babushka just did this with a toy of ours about a week and a half ago. It seems to work somewhat similar in approach to finding the G-Spot on a woman. Loved it would be an understatement for me – amazing orgasm!!
BABUSHKA - Yep, thats how! While he is on his back, kneel at the side of him. Slowly work a lubricated longer toy into the rim of his ass. Slowly slide it in and out, going a little farther each time. Once it is in a decent amount, start using your mouth and other hand in ways that please him. As his pleasure heightens, allow the toy to remain fully inserted and start turning it in circles, as if you are stirring something. Using your one hand and mouth on the cock and balls, other hand on the toy, keep this movement (modified to better please in that instance) until Viola! He tingles from head to toe and giggles at the feeling!

Bonus (as in optional): Confession Tuesday... tell me a secret!
KAHUNA – If I told you it would not be a secret now would it?!?!
BABUSHKA - Don't have any. . . I am an open book! Just ask! And, if you come up with something new I have not shared before, I will tell you just as soon as I tell Kahuna I found something he doesn't already know about me!

Never so glad to see a Monday arrive..............

........................After the path the last few days of the previous week took:

My desire to take the "high road" in my divorce somewhat derailed. After four days of hell at work and feeling crabby all around I just blasted an email to the XW based on a comment the week before. This led to a brief but loud exchange when I picked up the kids that night.

I am struggling to support two households. 11 months ago I agreed to not selling the house until the end of the upcoming school year (glass half full - halfway home!). This would allow the kids some time for adjustment and EW time to find more of a "permanent job". I guess I did not expect 11 months later to still be paying everything. The EW has seen a "job coach" and is now enrolled in classes to pursue a future career in event planning, but there has been no real "now" employment search. Even with the frustration I have around this, I still feel this sense that I "owe her" for the crappy husband I was in the past. I wonder when that goes away.

Whether or not they are related, my four hellish days (work and personal) coincidentally occurred at the same time I misplaced my anti-depressants. My pride does not want to admit that I may need these indefinitely but the last week seems to point to this.

Sadly, all of this can also take its' toll on my Babushka. My selfishness in wanting to pursue a relationship with her while in the middle of ending my previous one places an unfair and sometimes painful burden upon her. There are times I am disappointed for putting her through this - she deserves so much better. With that said, her post on Friday reminded me of a book she gave me in thanks of my friendship to her during a time of struggle - before were were Babushka and Kahuna.

Inscribed was:
Angels are friends who lift us to our feet when our wings forgot how to fly. Thank you for being my friend and angel.

I could not have said it any better. Thank you Babushka - for being my angel as well.

Get Busy Livin' or Get Busy Dyin'
I Adore....Therefore I Am Adored

I Hope You Dance

I hope you never lose your sense of wonder
You get your fill to eat
But always keep that hunger
May you never take one single breath for granted
God forbid love ever leave you empty handed
I hope you still feel small
When you stand by the ocean
Whenever one door closes,
I hope one more opens
Promise me you'll give faith a fighting chance
And when you get the choice to sit it out or dance
I hope you dance
I hope you dance
I hope you never fear those mountains in the distance
Never settle for the path of least resistance
Living might mean taking chances
But they're worth taking
Lovin' might be a mistake
But it's worth making
Don't let some hell bent heart
Leave you bitter
When you come close to selling out
Reconsider
Give the heavens above
More than just a passing glance
And when you get the choice to sit it out or dance
I hope you dance
(Time is a real and constant motion always)
I hope you dance
(Rolling us along)
I hope you dance
(Tell me who)
I hope you dance
(Wants to look back on their youth and wonder)
(Where those years have gone)
I hope you still feel small When you stand by the ocean
Whenever one door closes,
I hope one more opens
Promise me you'll give faith a fighting chance
And when you get the choice to sit it out or dance
Dance
I hope you dance
I hope you dance
(Time is a real and constant motion always)
I hope you dance
(Rolling us along)
I hope you dance
(Tell me who)
(Wants to look back on their youth and wonder)
I hope you dance
(Where those years have gone)
(Tell me who)
I hope you dance
(Wants to look back on their youth and wonder)
(Where those years have gone)

A.A. Milne HNT

Good Morning All,

Back in July for TMI #91, I mentioned a fantasy of Babushka washing dishes in her Pooh jammies. I fear that dear Bunny misunderstood my fantasy as being either little kid pajamas or a big Pooh costume.

So to clear the confusion I present Babushka and her little Pooh .......oh, and the pajamas too - :-)



Get Busy Livin' or Get Busy Dyin'
A day filled with sex and golf is my agenda today.....Yeah for me!!

TMI Tuesday #96

TMI Tuesday #96

1. Define "infidelity" as it relates to a relationship. Have you ever been guilty of infidelity? Have you ever been the victim of infidelity? Have you ever been a participant in someone else's infidelity?
KAHUNA:
Infidelity (Wikipedia) - A breach of faith; any violation of the mutually agreed-upon rules or boundaries of a relationship.
Fidelity (Wikipedia) - Accuracy and integrity of self-representation, honesty or candor in an intimate, committed relationship.

I regrettably have been a participant in my own and someone else’s infidelity.
- From a sexual standpoint, I engaged in this activity twice during my 15-year marriage (most recent 7 ½ years ago) – both were married women.
- In regards to Honesty and Integrity in a committed relationship, I was less than honest far too often in my marriage but gratefully transparent with my Babushka.
BABUSHKA:
I know this must sound totally sappy. But, I would have to totally agree with Kahuna as to what infidelity and fidelity are. I could go on and on about examples and how it does not always mean sexual intercourse in an extra-curricular activity. It is a basic breach of understood trust!

Have I ever be guilty of infidelity? Yes. I kissed someone when I was seeing someone else. Remember that not so nice guy I talked about in the last TMI (I think)? Well, when he was done with me, and I was used up, I went about a month without seeing him. Mind you, this was YEARS ago. . . Please remember that. . . Anyways, I had not seen him for a month. His good friend somehow ended up spending time with me when I ran into him at the mall. He gave me a ride to my car. On the way, he told me that I deserved better than his friend. And, he kissed me. Knowing he was all about "Playing" me, guess what. . . the friend told the boyfriend and I was left a "whore" for allowing him to kiss me. Funny thing is, it played on the friend's conscious so bad, he actually saw me years later and apologized admitting it was all a set up. So sad!

Have I ever been guilty of being a part of someone's infidelity. Yes. And, it cost me two years of livin' and more tears than anything else in this world. It was yet another twist to the mess I made of things a few years back. . . from which I am grateful daily for having survived.

Have I ever been the victim of someone else's infidelity? Yes. I think we all have, because we have all had a trust and faith broken by someone.

2. What is the last thing you stole?
KAHUNA:
A small towel from my health club.
BABUSHKA:
uhm. . . Oh the pen! I think I mentioned this before. But, Kahuna used to find any and every reason to visit my area when we worked together. One reason was to bring me a pen! I took it when I left that company. I am sure it means more to me then it does to them!

3. Name one place in your country that you have never been but would like to visit and why.
KAHUNA:
Maine – Used to be for fall foliage but now to also see the place of babushka’s birth.
BABUSHKA:
Alaska - Because that is the first place within our country I hear my Kahuna mention he wanted to go to! On a cruise!

4. What movies can you watch over and over again?
KAHUNA:
- The Shawshank Redemption
- What’s up Doc (The only thing I have EVER liked Barbara Streisand in)
- Austin Powers – The Spy Who Shagged Me
BABUSHKA:
- Last of the Mohicans
- Hope Floats
- Little Mermaid

5. Who is the last person you saw naked?
KAHUNA:
Babushka this Morning – Yeah!!!!!.
BABUSHKA:
Kahuna this morning! YEAH!

Bonus (as in optional): In honor of the 237 reasons we have sex study. Tell us at least five but not more than ten reasons you have had sex.
KAHUNA
- Because Babushka kissed me J
- Because Babushka rubbed my cock
- Because Babushka sucked my cock
- Because I awoke at 4:00 in the morning with an erection
- Because I am a guy and that’s what we do (Enough Said!)
BABUSHKA:
- Because it pleases me to please Kahuna
- Because when Kahuna gently licks my nipples, tummy, lips and clit, I HAVE TO!
- Because I have awoken at 4:00am with a hard cock already within my already wet pussy.
- Because I am desirable love to be desired!
- Because I often long to be in our world, encircled in Kahuna's arms.
- Because I trust and am trusted.
- Because I want Kahuna to know every inch of my body, mind and soul.

TMI Tuesday - 08/14/07

Remember to come back tonight and see Babushka and I jointly answer together!!!!

TMI Tuesday #95

1. What is the worst/corniest pick up line someone has used on you and/or you used?
KAHUNA – I have never been a real ‘pick-up’ line kinda guy, but have used sexual innuendo and double entendre as part of the flirting process. I am corny most of the time anyway (just ask Babushka about our trip to Target and Festival with the cart).
BABUSHKA – The worst pick up lines I have heard were not truly used on me or by me. But, they are worth mentioning: 1)Your pant must be made of tiny little mirrors because I can sure me myself in them. . . 2)Oh, this one was actually used. . . Did it hurt when you fell from heaven? Kahuna and I just kind of fit. . . We are both corny to/for and with each other! It is so beautiful!

2. Have you ever gone out on a date with someone and went home with someone else? Explain.
KAHUNA – Twice, both times when I lived in Maui years ago. To this day I remember both instances and regret them.
BABUSHKA – Nope. But, Kahuna, you did not explain. . . You have to explain.

3. What is the worst thing (spread a rumor, hook up with their SO, etc...) that you did to a friend? Did they do anything to deserve it?
KAHUNA – Talk about them behind their back. I do not care any longer about others “deserving” it – I prefer to now hold myself to a standard higher than that. These sorts of behaviors reflect on who I am, not on the person who may ‘deserve’ it.
BABUSHKA 0 The worst thing I ever did was counsel a friend’s boyfriend and try to help him with their relationship. You guessed it. . . He was a player and I got played BIG TIME!

4. What is your favorite sex scene in a regular movie (not porn)? Why?
KAHUNA – You mean there are movies other than porn? J/k
BABUSHKA – Hmmmm. . . Thanks to Kahuna’s answer, all I can think about is porn!

5. If you could change one thing about yourself, what would it be? What would you change on your SO?
KAHUNA – I would change my teeth. I would change nothing about Babushka (she reads this for goodness sake – what else am I gonna say).
BABUSHKA – I would change my necessity to worry/second guess/plan things. I know that is more than one thing. But, if I rephrase it, it will read my “needs”, which is one thing, right? I need to quit worrying/second guessing and planning so that I can realize and enjoy all that I have been blessed with! What would I change about Kahuna himself? Nothing. But, about his situation I would give him constant peace by ending his current situation and taking away the stress/pain it is causing him and us.

Bonus (as in optional): What countries, other than your own, have you had sex in? Was it someone on the trip with you? Someone from that country?
KAHUNA – Currently none but I plan to engage in this activity with Babushka in many countries.
BABUSHKA – Same!

Now. . . A light and funny question for ya'll. . . If you were a porn star, what would your name be?

TMI Tuesday #95******Incomplete*****

NOTE: THE COMPLETION OF THIS TMI WILL BE TONIGHT, AS MY BABUSHKA MUST WORK TODAY SO SHE CAN SUPPORT ME IN THE MANNER SHAE HAS MADE ME ACCUSTOMED TO :-)

PLEASE COME BACK TONIGHT - THANKS EVERYONE

1. What is the worst/corniest pick up line someone has used on you and/or you used?
KAHUNA – I have never been a real ‘pick-up’ line kinda guy, but have used sexual innuendo and double entendre as part of the flirting process.

I am corny most of the time anyway (just ask Babushka about our trip to Target and Festival with the cart).

2. Have you ever gone out on a date with someone and went home with someone else? Explain.
KAHUNA – Twice, both times when I lived in Maui years ago. To this day I remember both instances and regret them.

3. What is the worst thing (spread a rumor, hook up with their SO, etc...) that you did to a friend? Did they do anything to deserve it?
KAHUNA – Talk about them behind their back. I do not care any longer about others “deserving” it – I prefer to now hold myself to a standard higher than that. These sorts of behaviors reflect on who I am, not on the person who may ‘deserve’ it.

4. What is your favorite sex scene in a regular movie (not porn)? Why?
KAHUNA – You mean there are movies other than porn? :-)

5. If you could change one thing about yourself, what would it be? What would you change on your SO?
KAHUNA – I would change my teeth. I would change nothing about Babushka (she reads this for goodness sake – what else am I gonna say).

Bonus (as in optional): What countries, other than your own, have you had sex in? Was it someone on the trip with you? Someone from that country?
KAHUNA – Currently none but I plan to engage in this activity with Babushka in many countries.

In Mourning HNT

For those of us in the Great White North, we are shocked and saddened by the collapse of the I-35W bridge. It is all that anyone is discussing up here with up to 30 anticipated deceased after the river searches are complete and thousands of us impacted.

We mourn for all those who have lost and pray for strength for us all.

God Bless