TMI Tuesday #96
1. Define "infidelity" as it relates to a relationship. Have you ever been guilty of infidelity? Have you ever been the victim of infidelity? Have you ever been a participant in someone else's infidelity?
Infidelity (Wikipedia) - A breach of faith; any violation of the mutually agreed-upon rules or boundaries of a relationship.
Fidelity (Wikipedia) - Accuracy and integrity of self-representation, honesty or candor in an intimate, committed relationship.
I regrettably have been a participant in my own and someone else’s infidelity.
- From a sexual standpoint, I engaged in this activity twice during my 15-year marriage (most recent 7 ½ years ago) – both were married women.
- In regards to Honesty and Integrity in a committed relationship, I was less than honest far too often in my marriage but gratefully transparent with my Babushka.
I know this must sound totally sappy. But, I would have to totally agree with Kahuna as to what infidelity and fidelity are. I could go on and on about examples and how it does not always mean sexual intercourse in an extra-curricular activity. It is a basic breach of understood trust!
Have I ever be guilty of infidelity? Yes. I kissed someone when I was seeing someone else. Remember that not so nice guy I talked about in the last TMI (I think)? Well, when he was done with me, and I was used up, I went about a month without seeing him. Mind you, this was YEARS ago. . . Please remember that. . . Anyways, I had not seen him for a month. His good friend somehow ended up spending time with me when I ran into him at the mall. He gave me a ride to my car. On the way, he told me that I deserved better than his friend. And, he kissed me. Knowing he was all about "Playing" me, guess what. . . the friend told the boyfriend and I was left a "whore" for allowing him to kiss me. Funny thing is, it played on the friend's conscious so bad, he actually saw me years later and apologized admitting it was all a set up. So sad!
Have I ever been guilty of being a part of someone's infidelity. Yes. And, it cost me two years of livin' and more tears than anything else in this world. It was yet another twist to the mess I made of things a few years back. . . from which I am grateful daily for having survived.
Have I ever been the victim of someone else's infidelity? Yes. I think we all have, because we have all had a trust and faith broken by someone.
2. What is the last thing you stole?
A small towel from my health club.
uhm. . . Oh the pen! I think I mentioned this before. But, Kahuna used to find any and every reason to visit my area when we worked together. One reason was to bring me a pen! I took it when I left that company. I am sure it means more to me then it does to them!
3. Name one place in your country that you have never been but would like to visit and why.
Maine – Used to be for fall foliage but now to also see the place of babushka’s birth.
Alaska - Because that is the first place within our country I hear my Kahuna mention he wanted to go to! On a cruise!
4. What movies can you watch over and over again?
- The Shawshank Redemption
- What’s up Doc (The only thing I have EVER liked Barbara Streisand in)
- Austin Powers – The Spy Who Shagged Me
- Last of the Mohicans
- Hope Floats
- Little Mermaid
5. Who is the last person you saw naked?
Babushka this Morning – Yeah!!!!!.
Kahuna this morning! YEAH!
Bonus (as in optional): In honor of the 237 reasons we have sex study. Tell us at least five but not more than ten reasons you have had sex.
- Because Babushka kissed me J
- Because Babushka rubbed my cock
- Because Babushka sucked my cock
- Because I awoke at 4:00 in the morning with an erection
- Because I am a guy and that’s what we do (Enough Said!)
- Because it pleases me to please Kahuna
- Because when Kahuna gently licks my nipples, tummy, lips and clit, I HAVE TO!
- Because I have awoken at 4:00am with a hard cock already within my already wet pussy.
- Because I am desirable love to be desired!
- Because I often long to be in our world, encircled in Kahuna's arms.
- Because I trust and am trusted.
- Because I want Kahuna to know every inch of my body, mind and soul.