Tuesday, February 26, 2008


1. What can you consider as the greatest thing you've ever done for/ to yourself?
BABUSHKA - Right off the bat, I can think of a tie for the two greatest things I have ever done for myself. The first was to keep my son. Though there was never any doubt in my mind that I would have and keep BuddyLuv, it was hard to tell my parents I was going against their wishes. Fear made their first response be to suggest an abortion. I was never "pressured", but I was spoken to about it a lot, not just by them.

The second would be my epiphany. To read about it, see Epiphany.

Kahuna - Leave an unhappy and unhealthy marriage

2. What/ Which part of your life you think you could have done better and why?
BABUSHKA - Oohhh. Tough question. I believe there is A LOT I could have done better. However, if I had changed anything, I would not be who I am today.

Kahuna - So much I could have done better had I chosen to not hide and medicate, although I agree with Babushka that I would not be who and where I am otherwise

3. Do you have that one person whom you consider to be the wind beneath your wings?
BABUSHKA - Oh, yes! Can anyone guess? :-) I adore you with all of my heart, my Kahuna! I love you madly, deeply and passionately!

Kahuna - Babushka of course

4. Tell us about your longest relationship.
BABUSHKA - It was nothing to be really proud of. Read last paragraph here.

Kahuna - The relationship referenced in answer #1. I am in the middle of answering the endless list of interrogatories so i am really pissy about this relationship today (or the fact that I cannot seem to end it)

5. In a relationship, when do you get to that point of enough is enough?
BABUSHKA - That all depends on where you are in the relationship. If it is brand new and you are in a dating relationship, enough is whenever your lack of interest outweighs the positives of staying. If it is a long term thing, enough is enough when, no matter how hard you (as a couple) try, you (as a couple) cannot find your way back to you (as a couple).

Kahuna - Obviously I do not know this or i would not bet at the place I am at in answer #4

Bonus (as in optional):What is that one intimate moment with someone you miss so much and what are you willing to risk to have another moment of it. ;)
BABUSHKA - I am blessed enough to NOT miss something so much that I mist give up something to have it back.

Kahuna - Every intimate moment with Babushka


Mariposa said...

So enjoyed reading both answers, it was like interviewing a couple! ;)

I'm touched with #1 answers...happy TMI T to both of you!

Bunny said...

Oh, you two are SO cute! Love your answers, and Kahuna - I hope you get the other relationship done and over with soon so that you can get on with your life with B!

Happy TMI to you both!

Madame X said...

Love your answers. Uugghh... interrogatories are no fun. I did that twice in 2006 and it seemed like it would never end. It does... keep faith.

Biscuit said...

Kahuna, babe, I hope it all smooths out soon. Sounds like you're getting a raw deal.

Gillette said...

You two are so sweet, so Blessed to have found each other. So pretty. Makes me happy.

Big Kahuna said...

Sorry all - a little late to thanking you all. It is nice to know that others have been down the same path and made it through the other side.

You all are wonderful!!