Tuesday, February 26, 2008

TMI

1. What can you consider as the greatest thing you've ever done for/ to yourself?
BABUSHKA - Right off the bat, I can think of a tie for the two greatest things I have ever done for myself. The first was to keep my son. Though there was never any doubt in my mind that I would have and keep BuddyLuv, it was hard to tell my parents I was going against their wishes. Fear made their first response be to suggest an abortion. I was never "pressured", but I was spoken to about it a lot, not just by them.

The second would be my epiphany. To read about it, see Epiphany.

Kahuna - Leave an unhappy and unhealthy marriage


2. What/ Which part of your life you think you could have done better and why?
BABUSHKA - Oohhh. Tough question. I believe there is A LOT I could have done better. However, if I had changed anything, I would not be who I am today.

Kahuna - So much I could have done better had I chosen to not hide and medicate, although I agree with Babushka that I would not be who and where I am otherwise

3. Do you have that one person whom you consider to be the wind beneath your wings?
BABUSHKA - Oh, yes! Can anyone guess? :-) I adore you with all of my heart, my Kahuna! I love you madly, deeply and passionately!

Kahuna - Babushka of course

4. Tell us about your longest relationship.
BABUSHKA - It was nothing to be really proud of. Read last paragraph here.

Kahuna - The relationship referenced in answer #1. I am in the middle of answering the endless list of interrogatories so i am really pissy about this relationship today (or the fact that I cannot seem to end it)

5. In a relationship, when do you get to that point of enough is enough?
BABUSHKA - That all depends on where you are in the relationship. If it is brand new and you are in a dating relationship, enough is whenever your lack of interest outweighs the positives of staying. If it is a long term thing, enough is enough when, no matter how hard you (as a couple) try, you (as a couple) cannot find your way back to you (as a couple).

Kahuna - Obviously I do not know this or i would not bet at the place I am at in answer #4

Bonus (as in optional):What is that one intimate moment with someone you miss so much and what are you willing to risk to have another moment of it. ;)
BABUSHKA - I am blessed enough to NOT miss something so much that I mist give up something to have it back.

Kahuna - Every intimate moment with Babushka

6 comments:

Mariposa said...

So enjoyed reading both answers, it was like interviewing a couple! ;)

I'm touched with #1 answers...happy TMI T to both of you!

Bunny said...

Oh, you two are SO cute! Love your answers, and Kahuna - I hope you get the other relationship done and over with soon so that you can get on with your life with B!

Happy TMI to you both!

Madame X said...

Love your answers. Uugghh... interrogatories are no fun. I did that twice in 2006 and it seemed like it would never end. It does... keep faith.

Biscuit said...

Kahuna, babe, I hope it all smooths out soon. Sounds like you're getting a raw deal.

Gillette said...

You two are so sweet, so Blessed to have found each other. So pretty. Makes me happy.

Big Kahuna said...

Sorry all - a little late to thanking you all. It is nice to know that others have been down the same path and made it through the other side.

You all are wonderful!!

Kahuna