I never thought it would happen - turning down an opportunity for some quality nekkid time with my lovely Babushka.....for Work and Errands?!?
That's right - mundane activities like these rather than "gettin' a little somethin', somethin" and I could not be happier! Before those who know me call the wagon with the white coats, let me clarify. Work, Errands, Food, Air, etc. will never be more vital to me than Babuska's HWP or NTA.
But I did not play the old tapes - "better drop everything cause this may be your only chance for the year." My past experience was a partner whose desire was slow to arrive (and only upon the exact compliment of alcohol) but would quickly disappear without warning. Many a time a statement of interest was gone by the time the car pulled in the driveway. With a sex life of 2-3 times a year, preoccupation at any slight possibility was the norm, almost always resulting in rejection, pain and ultimately resentment.
But not today and not with Babushka. Her interest in me does not depend on a precariously thin line of alcohol. Her desire for me will be no less tomorrow than it was today. We will spend a glorious evening tomorrow filled with laughter, intimacy and orgasms I am sure! Being healthy enough to prioritize responsibility over desire - that is priceless indeed!
And don't worry about me - I will be chasing Babushka around the kitchen tomorrow doing my best Bill Murray - Spatula in Hand!
Get Busy Livin' or Get Busy Dyin'
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