TMI

1. What can you consider as the greatest thing you've ever done for/ to yourself?
BABUSHKA - Right off the bat, I can think of a tie for the two greatest things I have ever done for myself. The first was to keep my son. Though there was never any doubt in my mind that I would have and keep BuddyLuv, it was hard to tell my parents I was going against their wishes. Fear made their first response be to suggest an abortion. I was never "pressured", but I was spoken to about it a lot, not just by them.

The second would be my epiphany. To read about it, see Epiphany.

Kahuna - Leave an unhappy and unhealthy marriage

2. What/ Which part of your life you think you could have done better and why?
BABUSHKA - Oohhh. Tough question. I believe there is A LOT I could have done better. However, if I had changed anything, I would not be who I am today.

Kahuna - So much I could have done better had I chosen to not hide and medicate, although I agree with Babushka that I would not be who and where I am otherwise

3. Do you have that one person whom you consider to be the wind beneath your wings?
BABUSHKA - Oh, yes! Can anyone guess? :-) I adore you with all of my heart, my Kahuna! I love you madly, deeply and passionately!

Kahuna - Babushka of course

4. Tell us about your longest relationship.
BABUSHKA - It was nothing to be really proud of. Read last paragraph here.

Kahuna - The relationship referenced in answer #1. I am in the middle of answering the endless list of interrogatories so i am really pissy about this relationship today (or the fact that I cannot seem to end it)

5. In a relationship, when do you get to that point of enough is enough?
BABUSHKA - That all depends on where you are in the relationship. If it is brand new and you are in a dating relationship, enough is whenever your lack of interest outweighs the positives of staying. If it is a long term thing, enough is enough when, no matter how hard you (as a couple) try, you (as a couple) cannot find your way back to you (as a couple).

Kahuna - Obviously I do not know this or i would not bet at the place I am at in answer #4

Bonus (as in optional):What is that one intimate moment with someone you miss so much and what are you willing to risk to have another moment of it. ;)
BABUSHKA - I am blessed enough to NOT miss something so much that I mist give up something to have it back.

Kahuna - Every intimate moment with Babushka

TMI - Better late than never 2

1. Which one turns you on more Ink or piercing? Why?
BABUSHKA - Ink! On both men and women! Though, I am not a fan of too much, a little on the right body can be very sexy.
KAHUNA - I did not become a real fan of either until Babushka - I love her tattoo. Although I am a little worried about her liking ink on men. I do not have any and she says she does not want me to get any...............she must save this turn-on for her other boyfriend!

2. What ink do you have? If none, what would you get and and where?
BABUSHKA - My lower back (look through old pics and there it is!) I would like to get it expanded some day. I just cannot justify spending the money right now.
KAHUNA - I do not have any and probably to old and conservative to get any now......I wonder if G.W. Bush has one :-)

3. What piercing do you have? If none, what would you get and and where?
BABUSHKA - Navel, 5 in ears.
KAHUNA - Had one in left ear for the seven years I lived in Maui - None now

4. Any other adornments you like to do for your lover or have then do for you?
BABUSHKA - I am not really sure what this is asking. . .
KAHUNA - Perhaps Babushka can get a labia piercing (just kidding sweetie)

5. Of all of the above is there anything that is an immediate Turn-Off?
BABUSHKA - Nose bull ring, nipple rings and expanded ring piercings are really not something I go for.
KAHUNA - Agree with Babushka above

Bonus (as in optional): If money/work place rules/your life/whatever what ALL would you do to your body in the name of sexual or just general adornment?
BABUSHKA - I would expand my tattoo and get my nose pierced (an itty bitty stone on one side)
KAHUNA - As long as Babushka does both above and she is happy with them, that is all I need.........Perhaps I will get me a Prince Albert someday (NOT)

TMI #122 - Together Again

1. What's the sexiest gesture a person you are sexually interested in can make?
KAHUNA – The first thought that comes to mind is the sight of Babushka this morning – In only her thong, on her hands and knees on the sofa with he ‘I bet you would like some of this’ look. I did!
BABUSHKA - The sexiest gesture my Kahuna can do is take me into his arms and kiss my forehead. I don't know what it is about that gesture, but it just gets me.


2. What are 3 inevitable things about you?
KAHUNA – 1). I will forget your name when we first meet 2). I will likely forget your name the second time we meet. 3). I will still adore my Babushka
BABUSHKA - 1) I will forget your name when we first meet. 2) I will cry during a romantic movie. 3) I will still adore my Kahuna.


3. How many types of orgasms have you experienced?
KAHUNA – I think this is more of a gal question, as I have read about various orgasm types for women (vaginal, anal, multiple, ejaculatory, etc)……Guys seem to have but one, although the intensity does vary based on what is being stimulated and how it is being stimulated.
BABUSHKA - I guess I have a lot to learn. . . I have experienced the vaginal (yeah for Kahuna and I), anal, multiple, external (not sure of the word, the kind that come from when Kahuna worships me orally). What else is there? Share your stories!

4. What asset do you have besides the physical and the material?
KAHUNA – “Beside” assumes that I have physical and/or material assets. I would say sense of humor.
BABUSHKA - My smile, My attitude, My heart, My faith, My inner peace (usually)


5. What do you want . . . .now?
KAHUNA – Babushka……………………………..Nekkid.
BABUSHKA - to be in Kahuna's arms. And, tied for that, Kahuna's inner strength to break the bonds of those who still cause him pain.


Bonus (as in optional): Describe a sexy mind.
KAHUNA – A thought process that embraces sensuality and sexuality, is open to honest and intimate discussion and does not judge the wants and desires of another person (within some reason of course – kids and animals are off limits).
BABUSHKA - I cannot express this more eloquently than Kahuna has.

TMI #122

1. What's the sexiest gesture a person you are sexually interested in can make?
KAHUNA – The first thought that comes to mind is the sight of Babushka this morning – In only her thong, on her hands and knees on the sofa with he ‘I bet you would like some of this’ look. I did J

2. What are 3 inevitable things about you?
KAHUNA – 1). I will forget your name when we first meet 2). I will likely forget your name the second time we meet. 3). I will still adore my Babushka

3. How many types of orgasms have you experienced?
KAHUNA – I think this is more of a gal question, as I have read about various orgasm types for women (vaginal, anal, multiple, ejaculatory, etc)……Guys seem to have but one, although the intensity does vary based on what is being stimulated and how it is being stimulated.

4. What asset do you have besides the physical and the material?
KAHUNA – “Beside” assumes that I have physical and/or material assets. I would say sense of humor.

5. What do you want . . . .now?
KAHUNA – Babushka……………………………..Nekkid.

Bonus (as in optional): Describe a sexy mind.
KAHUNA – A thought process that embraces sensuality and sexuality, is open to honest and intimate discussion and does not judge the wants and desires of another person (within some reason of course – kids and animals are off limits).

-15 Below is getting old..........

.......and apparently so am I, based on the 'VIP' letter I received in the mail on Friday
Granted, I am not in my 20's (or even 30's if honesty is required) but I only need a scooter if I am in the grocery store looking to run over all the people who block the row for 20 minutes contemplating the meaning of the cosmos while staring at cans of tomato sauce!

Other than that, the weekend was an important one. Babushka started her 2nd job so I was in charge of watching BuddyLuv on Sunday. It was our first truly extended time together, just the two of us. It went very well, he helped me clean the house (as only a 12-year old can) and make dinner for my lovely one.

I so admire my Babushka. She works so hard and does this without complaining about it. Her first weekend at the new job and she was singled out for her excellence (Not uncommon). This is a short-term venture for her but I know difficult it is to work a full time job Mon-Fri and then work Sat-Sun at another. She deserves all of the pampering a certain Kahuna can give her - cooking, cleaning, orgasmic relief......

I adore you, my beautiful Babushka!

Get Busy Livin' or Get Busy Dyin'
"Sanity is madness put to good use" - George Santayana

Continuation HNT

This photo of the lovely Babushka is another in the series taken last September. Two weeks ago I had hoped to have some new photos from out Martina McBride weekend but my cold drained me of that energy. Last week I had my root canal adventure and missed out on HNT altogether.

I love these shots of her in my shirt (although I am biased) yet I am sure Babushka is looking forward to new sets of HNT's that display svelter self.
Get Busy Livin' or Get Busy Dyin'

TMI #121

1. By what nickname(s) were you known as a child?
KAHUNA – My father called me ‘Pooh’

2. Do you have a favorite poem and, if so, what is it? Recite it (or a snippet) here, please.
KAHUNA – There once was a man from Nantucket……….

What is your greatest regret in life, something that you failed to do that you wish you did?
KAHUNA – For years, my one great regret was not completing my college education but I graduated last month (Yeah!!). No regrets for me anymore – all the ‘mistakes’ I have made in my life have shaped me to be the man I am today.

You are tired and hungry, but it's too late to cook. If any snack food were available to you, what would you choose and why?
KAHUNA – If it is too late to cook it must be time for Ice Cream!!

What is the oldest item of clothing (not jewelry!) that you wear regularly and what do you love about it?
KAHUNA – Thank goodness you excluded jewelry (lol!). This would probably be my brown slip-on shoes and I do not love them so much as I am cheap :-)

Bonus (as in optional): Name a movie or TV show that changed your thinking or behavior.
KAHUNA – The Shawshank Redemption…Inspired me to dream that I could have a better life (which I now have with Babushka) and the name of our blog.

Glad the week is finally over.....

After Tuesday's TMI my week kinda went to hell

• Computer decided it was done (at work and home)
• Car battery decided it was done (at 12 below zero)
• Molar decided it was done (actually it would not stop hurting)

So between an emergency laptop, emergency car battery and an emergency root canal I missed HNT Thursday and went further in debt, which in turn triggers angry thoughts of the ex-that-won't seem to become an ex because it is easier to spend all the money I earn rather than go earn her own (not that I am bitter or anything).

But it could be so much worse, couldn't it. I have Babushka, who never ceases to amaze me with her compassion, understanding, internal strength, uncommon love for others and seeming unquenchable desire to play/fiddle with/stroke/suck my cock!

Other than the pain in my tooth, I would not trade this week for anything. I made it through the week strong, sober and still have Babushka in my heart.

Get Busy Livin or Get Busy Dyin
Perspective might be the anti-lock brake of our drive through life